Being nice is slowly killing you
🔥it’s time to learn to say no🔥
If you’re a woman over 50, you’ve most likely followed someone else’s rules for long enough.
It’s high time to write your own.
I can help you.
Control What You Can Control
Trust and Love Yourself Unconditionally
Finally Live As Your Truest Self
You Want to Stop People-Pleasing But It Feels Like Breaking Out of a Polite Spider's Web
Do Any of These Sound Familiar?
The No-Is-A-Bad-Word Mom
A mom at school asks you to bake 3 dozens cupcakes for tomorrow’s bake sale, and your mouth, without consulting your brain, replies YES enthusiastically, although the only way you can actually accomplish that is if you clone yourself, and then clone your clone, and you start pondering if a “yes detox” is in order.
The Awkwardness Avoider
You’re having a conversation with a relative who has an uncanny ability to bring up awkward topics. Instead of unleashing your inner sarcastic self, you find yourself politely chuckling and nodding along. You’d rather be nice than rock the boat, because you’ve been brainwashed to think that women are responsible for making everyone comfortable.
The Guilt Trip Voyager
You finally decide to take a day off for yourself, but as soon as you sit down to relax, a guilt trip spaceship swoops in, beaming thoughts of unfinished tasks and societal expectations. Your self-care ritual turns into an intergalactic guilt trip, one warp-speed slap at a time, and you end up more anxious than when you started.
I was right there with you...
And I get how hard it can be to change.
I spent decades trying to fit in, to belong, and to do those things, I believed I needed to make sure EVERYONE and their mamas were happy. I did backbends to ensure NOBODY had “bad” feelings of any sort.
Except me. I had the worse feeling of all: the one of not being good enough. Because no matter what I did, no matter how much I wanted to please everyone, shockingly, people still weren’t pleased 100% of the time.
So when I tell you this is possible for you too, I speak not only from professional experience, but personal too. It’s never too late. You’re not too old. I’m 50 and I finally feel free to be who I am, I have control over my emotions, and I feel joy every day.
"But I don't even know where to start!"
Shred the Old Rulebook, Rule Like a Boss
Hold up – I know what you’re thinking, but let me say say it again: you’re not too old and it’s not too late. Age is just a number, and you’re right on time to own your uniqueness. Yep, the glorious messiness of YOU! Let’s Marie Kondo TF out of those outdated beliefs and rewrite your story on YOUR terms. With me in your corner, you’ll master the art of self-trust, following your gut, and you’ll create a rulebook as one-of-a-kind as you are.
My game plan is for you to unleash your power and flip the world right-side up, all while sipping your morning beverage. Ambitious? Fuck yeah! Can you do it? OF COURSE YOU CAN! When you stop people-pleasing, you make space for yourself at the tables that actually matter, and that’s how we change the world. Hashtag no pressure. So let’s shatter molds, rattle cages, and sprinkle some rebel magic!
Listen, love: you’ve been “Miss Goody Two-Shoes” for decades, following the rules and avoiding any boat-rocking. But guess what? You’re ready to own that what you want MATTERS, just the way you want it. Time to unleash your inner wild child, so fellow free spirits can find their way to you.
Enough with believing the sexist white dude that lives in your head, repeatedly saying you’re too sensitive, too emotional, too loud, too much. It’s YOUR one and only life, and you’re the boss of it. Say “no” when you mean it, exist unapologetically, and throw the She-Who-Suffers-The-Most Award in the trash where it belongs. It’s your time to revel in genuine happiness and unbridled joy, damn it!
Ready to set fire to the old beliefs and finally live life like you mean it?
Let's Chat, You Rule-Breaker!
Ready to rewrite your story with more sass and less stress? Book a free 1h consult with me, and let’s embark on your journey of rule-breaking, people-pleasing smashing, and unapologetic joy. Click that button, because rebels like us believe in making waves, not ripples!